The British royal family has publicly acknowledged Prince Harry’s 40th birthday for the first time since his departure from formal royal duties in 2020, marking a notable shift given the ongoing tensions between Harry and the monarchy. On Sunday, September 15, 2024, the official Royal Family account posted on X (formerly Twitter), “Wishing The Duke of Sussex a very happy 40th birthday today!” accompanied by a candid photo of Harry laughing at a table. This gesture is significant, as it is the first public recognition of Harry’s birthday since his split from royal life.
Following the Royal Family’s post, Prince William and Kate Middleton, the Prince and Princess of Wales, shared their own message by reposting the original tweet and adding, “Wishing a Happy 40th Birthday to The Duke of Sussex!” This message stands out, as it is the first public birthday greeting from William and Kate for Harry since his decision to step back from royal duties, a choice that strained the brothers’ relationship. Their tensions escalated after the release of Harry’s memoir *Spare* in 2023, in which he aired grievances with the royal family.
Despite the distance, Harry and his wife, Meghan Markle, have retained their titles as Duke and Duchess of Sussex and currently reside in California with their two children, Archie, 5, and Lilibet, 3. For his milestone birthday, Harry is set to celebrate with his family in California, followed by a vacation with close friends, according to the BBC.
Ahead of his 40th birthday, Harry released a statement reflecting on his life and fatherhood, expressing optimism for the future. “I was anxious about 30, I’m excited about 40,” he said, highlighting his continued dedication to philanthropy and making a positive impact. He also emphasized the transformative experience of fatherhood, calling it “one of life’s greatest joys.” Becoming a father, he noted, has given him a new perspective and sharpened his focus on all his work.
The birthday greetings from Buckingham Palace and Prince William may signal a potential softening in the strained relationship, though it is unclear if these messages hint at a broader reconciliation. For now, Prince Harry seems content to focus on his family, his philanthropic work, and embracing his 40s with a renewed sense of purpose.